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Your Relationships and Marriages Will Fail Without This

Your Relationships and Marriages Will Fail Without This

By Pastor Dickson Wasake  ·  Senior Pastor, OurTestimony.org

The Lord Jesus has given me a word for this season, because he is the one who searches the hearts.

Many are seeking husbands, wives, or life partners. Others are wondering why their relationships are so difficult. The Master says: because many of us lack self-control.

The men burn with lust, have outbursts of rage and even violence, drink excessively, and spend money on frivolous things — all because of lack of self-control.

The women face the same struggle — only they often "eat in secret, wipe their mouths, and say they did not do it." They may secretly maintain other relationships, or struggle with sexual sin, while saying they are ready for marriage.

What the Lord taught me:

In the first month after I encountered the Lord Jesus and was baptised a second time, he dealt with my lack of self-control by having me fast for three days on water only. The Holy Spirit told me at the time: "It is for your body."

That fasting first broke demonic strongholds of sexual immorality in my life, and then it taught me to control the desires of the flesh. Controlling hunger teaches you to control all other desires.

Now, self-control has a sister called discipline. It takes discipline to sit down and read your Bible when you could be on social media. Those who can control their impulses — "I feel like doing it, so I will" — will develop discipline: "I do not feel like praying or loving my wife today, but I have a covenant with God so I will do it, however difficult."

If you let the Lord teach you self-control, you will do well in your relationships and in your marriage.

Let he who has an ear hear what the Spirit is saying to the churches. Amen. Come Lord Jesus — Maranatha!

Your brother in the Lord, Pastor Dickson Wasake

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